If your boss offered you a raise you wouldn't look at her and say, "Nah, I'm good. I really don't need any more money."
Instead, the second the "r" word echoed off her lips you would immediately think about whether or not it is socially acceptable to break out in your favorite dance moves.
Raises, promotion, and an increase to your good ole' wallet is something all hard-working employees desire. Our happiness and livelihood can unfortunately come to depend solely on the chase of the elusive dollar. We prove it by our constant go to saying -- "If only I had more money..."
I literally felt that collective pause in your breathe when you read that! Hey, at some point in our lives we've all said it.
We have even justified our financial lack to why we couldn't do things.
"I don't have enough money to pay off my debt."
"I don't have enough money to go on vacation."
"I don't have enough money to start a retirement fund or save."
So, we work hard and patiently wait for more. Naturally, the more we have the better we'll be ... right?
Not so fast.
Our financial journey has been a big part of our lives. We recently wrote about it. I never woke up one day and decided I would passionately protect and handle my finances. It didn't say, "intense budgeter" as my future life aspirations in the my high school yearbook.
Instead, it happened naturally. I received my first paycheck of $180 and opened up Microsoft Word and told the $180 how I wanted it to be broken down. The same system I do today. It's the same system that attributed to us paying off over $70,000 in debt in 4.5 years.
I've had the experience to meet with a lot of individuals on budgeting. It's likely the top reason people pursue to meet with me -- yes, even over other pastoral engagements. Throughout the many money-centered conversations, there's always one resounding statement: "If only I had more money..."
However, more money doesn't necessarily change anything. In fact, let's talk about a few myths.